Entry: A Thought...Soul Mates? Saturday, December 04, 2004



THREE KINDS OF SOUL MATES
Did you know there are three main kinds of soulmates?  They are: Karmic,
Companion and Twin Flames. Study the different kinds and discover which
category your soul mate falls under. This will give you a broader understanding
of why he or she has come into your life. To help you, I will explain the
differences.

1.KARMIC SOUL MATE
The karmic soul mate experience is very common. You can have many of
these in alifetime.  They enter your life to teach you an important lesson.
Karmic soul mates can be co-workers, family members or close friends.
Sometimes karmic soul mate relationships can be romantic in nature; but
if so,they won't last long.  That is because these relationships are solely
meant for learning lessons and for growth rather than for obtaining a life
partner. Another point to remember about karmic soul mates, as well as
other kinds of soul mates, is that each one, comes into our lives for a
reason and to teach us a lesson about ourselves.

2.COMPANION SOUL MATE
A companion soul mate relationship can be a relationship that is romantic
in nature.  It involves your wife/husband or someone you are intimate with.
Oftentimes, these soul mates are not destined to be with us forever but,
like Karmic soul mates, are brought into our lives for a purpose.  It is
possible to spend a lifetime with your companion soul mate if you haven't
met your twin soul.  However, when the twin soul is found, the companion
soulmate relationship could suffer.  When this happens, the companion soulmate
relationship is generally short-lived or, if it continues, a non-satisfying one. 
However, this is no reason to jump ship when it happens. Remember, there
is a reason your companion soul mate is in your life (for example, so you can
raise children together).  When your twin soul comes into your life and you
are in a companion soul mate relationship, it is important that you take
things slowly. It may be that the companion soul mate relationship will come
to an end-or it may not.  One thing you must keep in mind is that ending
an existing relationship solely because one feels one has found one's twin
soul is never a good idea, because over time you will realize that both
associations are meant to be and both have an important role in your life. 
An interesting aspect of the companion soulmate relationship is that we put
more of our energies into it. The karmic soul mate relationship tends to go
at an easy pace, without much effort from either partner, as it does with
twin souls. The companion soulmate bond requires more work on our parts
to sustain a healthy, loving atmosphere.

3.TWIN FLAMES
This is the highest form of soul mate connection.  Your twin soul is
your other half; to find your twin soul is like finding yourself.  We go
through our life searching and searching, and what we don't realize is
that we are looking for someone just like us.  Sometimes, we find them
in this life and, other times, in other lives.  I believe they are always
around, but for some reason it is not apparent.  Perhaps we close our
eyes to them. We don't listen and observe.  We go through life at
such a hectic pace we don't stop and take in things that would otherwise
be apparent, so the presence of a soulmate could hit us flat in the face
and we wouldn't even know it. This is sad, because we have missed that
one, rare opportunity for total bliss and happiness.

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IDENTIFYING A SOUL MATE RELATIONSHIP
In order to find your soul mate, you must know what to look for.  I
have compiled the eleven most important traits in recognizing your soul mate. 
Read them to helpyou decide who your own soul mate(s) is.

1.ACCEPTANCE
Your soul mate must accept you for who you are.  He or she must
accept your weaknesses as well as your strengths.  Your soul mate
does not try to change you, nor do you try to change them.  He or
she lets you be yourself, for the more you are yourself, the stronger
your bond with your soul mate has a chance of becoming.

2.ENCOURAGEMENT
Your soul mate makes you feel good about yourself.  He or she
never criticizes,only encourages.  If they cannot do this, then
they are not your soul mate.

3.NURTURING
Your soul mate cares about you and what happens to you. He is
the first to be by your side in accomplishment and defeat.  She
picks you up when others throw you down.  He nurtures your spirit
so you can roll with the punches, no matter where they fall.


4.FRIENDSHIP
Your soul mate is your best friend in the entire world.  She or he
laughs with you, cries with you, sings with you.  They are there for
you when life throws you those bad curves; they are there for you when
you surpass your highest expectations of yourself.  A soul mate will
understand you and give you what you want and need without hesitation. 
She will make you feel at home, comfortable and at ease.  As you
would with any friend, take the relationship slow.  Savor each milestone
of firsts: the first time your eyes meet, the first time his lips brush
against yours, the first afternoon spent together walking through the
park or along the seashore or even just in your own backyard. You have
to remember that if you end up together, these "firsts" will be ingrained
in your memory forever. Cherish them.

5.GENEROSITY
Your soul mate is generous.  He gives freely of his time and his possessions.
She will ditch whatever she is doing to be with you.  He will give you
your heart's desires.  She will give you her heart and soul, if need be.

6.CONVERSATIONALIST
Soul mates are interested in what each other have to say. My soul mate
and I would spend hours contemplating the mysteries of the universe.
Since we thought alike, we never did stop talking. We talked about our
past, our present and our future. As we had so many things in common,
each of us was interested in what the other had to say.

7.PREMONITIONS
You may have premonitions of your future soul mate in dreams. 
Whether they are when you are asleep or when you are in meditation,
you will picture your soul mate as if he or she were standing in front
of you.  You will note the color of their hair, the sound of their voice,
their way of walking.  You will picture your soul mate as you want them
to be.  If you are fortunate enough to be able to do this-and it can
happen anytime, anywhere-remember it.  For, in time, your soulmate
will appear in front of you just as you envisioned.


8.POSITIVE KARMA
One of the main ingredients for a successful soul mate relationship
lies in thepower of karma.  In layman's terms, karma is basically the
theory that whatever you do, there will be another event to follow that
is directly consequential to your actions.  Therefore, the law of karma
teaches us that what we do today may come back to haunt us tomorrow.
How does this apply to the soulmate phenomenon?
NOTE: If you are in a bad relationship, and you continue to remain in that
relationship, you are setting up a path of bad karma for yourself
because of the negative energies that arise.  Once you learn to set up
a shield against this negativity, good karma will infiltrate your life and
open your soul to a promising and healthy soul mate relationship.  Not
until this happens will you ever receive a satisfactory soul mate union. 
Both parties must bring good karma into the relationship.  You have to
remember that we are all souls, just pure energy "visiting" this planet;
and we have been here many times.  Neither partner can come from a
place where negativity is present, or the soul mate experience just won't
occur.

9.SPIRITUAL CONNECTION
You will feel a connection with your soul mate, as if you had
known him or her before. You will feel an energy radiating between
you. You will look into each other's eyes and see each other's soul,
for that is where the true soul mate connection lies.  Not enough
can be said about the spiritual connection between soul mates. It is
the most important quality in a soul mate relationship.  You will feel
this in the depths of your heart and soul. Without it, the soul mate
relationship is doomed.

10.UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Your soul mate will love you more than anything or anyone he has
loved in his entire life, although he will give you freedom to be who
you are.  "You cannot possess a soul mate any more than you can
possess a person in your physical world," says Robert Egby, author
of Thank You For The Flowers. "Soul mates are free and must always
be so. Love cannot be possessed or controlled.  Soul mates are together
because they share an unconditional love, a mutual vibration.  There
are no exceptions."

11.PERFECT TIMING
Other things come into play in seeking your soul mate that
you might not count on.  One is perfect timing.  If it isn't
the right time for you and your soul mate to be together, it
will likely not happen.

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DO YOU ONLY HAVE ONE SOUL MATE?
I have learned in doing research that many people
do not believe in soul mates.  They say they have searched and
searched for the one person who will make them happy, and have
given up.  They have come to the conclusion they do not believe
there is one, and only one, person who is perfect for them.  They
are absolutely right.   There is no one person who is your soul mate
because, as I noted earlier, there are at least three types of soul
mates.  Those who do not believe at all are missing an important part
of their life experience, for it is our search for our soul mate that
makes our spiritual journey complete.  The bottom line is, don't give up. 
Our soul mates are out there. Perhaps, they are right under our noses
and we don't even realize it.

Have you found your soulmate???
Personally I have found some relating to the categories I just reveiwed with you,
and if you have found them, don't take any of it for granted and don't be a fool.
Because when you look on it, it hurts when they aren't there anymore

            xox Toodlez Hun xox
                           Lotsa Love All
                      *Hu9 Hu9 k!$$ k!$$*
                                                              'SSDD'
          Prancer/ T!K T0C/FireFly/Labelle
       
                                  -----Donna-----                    =====D-Lux=====

   2 comments

Jessica
May 5, 2005   10:55 PM PDT
 
thank you for clearing the karmic soul mate issue for me cause i found my well one of my karmic soul mates. it was confusing but you cleared it.
Jessica
May 5, 2005   10:55 PM PDT
 
thank you for clearing the karmic soul mate issue for me cause i found my well one of my karmic soul mates. it was confusing but you cleared it.

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